Return favors

Someone who isn’t as nice as they pretend to be has high expectations for their friends, but doesn’t offer their own friendship in the same way.

They expect you to show up for them whenever they need you, yet that flexibility and generosity only goes one way, from you to them.

If you ask them for even a small favor, they always have an excuse about being too busy or overwhelmed to help out. They rely on the kindness of other people, but they don’t pay that kindness back.